Love problems are hard. You try to find a partner but end up believing there's no one for you. You try to make your partnership work but end up fighting the one you love. You try everything you can – but nothing works.

The reason nothing works is because it's hard to untangle love problems from the inside. You need someone on the outside – to spot where you're going wrong, give you a new perspective, help you get your confidence back.

I've helped thousands of people find, build and keep love and I now offer relationship and sexuality coaching by email, by phone and face-to-face.

Maybe you need my expertise to help you: find a loving partner; navigate relationship challenges such as having a baby; get out of a partnership that's making you crazy; discover new love after a break-up.

Get my help on a personal relationship issue.

If you need emotional help urgently, here are some links to useful organisations.

"I took Susan's advice some time ago and now couldn't be happier – we are getting married." ML, caller to Sex in the City radio phone-in.