If you want my advice as an agony aunt, do contact me via one of my agony columns.

• Sex in the City on LBC: email or call in (0845 60 60 973) or text in (84850) on Friday nights between 10pm and midnight
• SORTED IN 10 website (for emotional problems around erectile dysfunction)
• Jo's Trust website (for emotional problems around cervical cancer)
• NAPS website (for emotional problems around premenstrual tension)

However, I get so many letters that unfortunately I can't guarantee an answer. So if you need help urgently, click here for links to useful organisations. Sadly, due to pressure of work, I'm not able to answer any agony problems not sent through the columns.

If you have any comments - or suggestions of how we could work together, I'd love to hear from you. Email: reachme@susanquilliam.com or telephone my office on: +44 (0)1223 329966.